I have a problem. I am a gay man, very masculine in general, but when I am home I like to wear frilly panties. A few men I have dated thought that meant I wanted to be a woman, and I don't know how to explain to them that I am all male. Any suggestions?
Other than transgender males to females, the most common reason men like to wear frilly panties is because they feel so sensuous and sexy. The feel of silk or nylon to the skin is soothing also. I suspect the "hard" feeling :) you get when you wear them should show them that you are ALL man.
Some people will think what they want no matter what you tell them by way of explanation. So do what makes you feel good. Perhaps you can suggest they try a pair of their own. You never know, once they wear them, they will never go back!
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